Confused

Staying on the topic of what is appropriate for a blog. I am thinking and feeling things now that I want to write down and now I have conflicting thoughts because of the past criticisms. It's a dilemma, and here's why...

There are feelings of negativity I have about things at the moment and my first thought is to explain them in a blog, even though they are because of a certain person. The critics tell me I shouldn't do this and should just say it to them. However, I just feel that sometimes the moment doesn't feel right to bring up certain things in conversation, whether it be in text or in spoken form. When you know somebodies mind is wrapped up in something else, isn't it selfish to approach them with issues you have. Wont it seem insensitive to say how your feeling, like it's only important if it's you?

I also think that in simple terms, the things I am aggrieved about will seem trivial and silly and I don't think they'll easily be explained and sometimes I feel I can at least have a fair crack at trying to properly convey in detailed terms what is bothering me and I guess I feel like if they read it on the blog then they'll have some idea as to my frame of mind for when we do speak.

Sometimes saying things to people is embarrassing and make issues seem bigger than they are and I feel a lot of the time as though I can rationalise it in a blog.

It's difficult, this thing although specific to one person, is actually part of a wider issue I have with a number of friends and so I then think, would it not be better saying it in a blog form so that people know, rather than individually going round and saying 'look here...'

It's fundamentally an issue about affection. I may delve deeper when I figure out how I should go about saying it. Do I say it to them or it the blog, I actually don't know.