A message

Everyone cares for you and everyone will be there to comfort you if you want it. Take your time and deal with it, don't feel the need to try to forget and move on. Grieving is important, family is important. The Internet, cartoons and podcasts are not important.

I so wished I could have been there last night. I felt powerless to help. But remember that we're here night and day if you need us.

Love you x

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I AM NOT HERE

Don't stand by my grave and weep,
For I am not there, I do not sleep.
I am a thousand winds that blow.
I am the diamond glint of snow.
I am the sunlight on ripened grain.
I am the gentle autumn's rain.
When you awaken in the morning, hush.
For I am the swift uplifting rush
Of quiet birds in circle flight.
I am the soft stars that shine at night.
Do not stand by my grave and cry.
I am not there, I did not die.